OFF TOPIC: 1 - The People Closest To You

The people closest to you are the people who tend to hurt you.  And in most cases, they do it intentionally.  Through much self-reflection and trial and error I have finally learned to be seen and not heard and that my silence is golden.  

The bottom line is that you just can't help some people.  They love their own misery even when they complain about it. They seek out your help when the chips are down but lash out at you when you try to help them prevent falling into the pitfalls that cause them suffering.

They say misery love company and I know its true but I also now believe that the miserable love their own misery so let them dwell in it.